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More than 70% of the global population experiences stage fear, but for most people, it is still something to feel embarrassed about. The blog throws light on this underplayed fear and explains how with practice and perseverance we can overcome it.

Do you fear public speaking? If you answered yes, do understand that you are not alone. It is estimated that 73-74% of the global population has this fear, which we commonly call stage fear. The more formal term for it is glossophobia.

Stage fear can take a huge toll on self-confidence as it is often projected that to be successful in work you need to be good at public speaking. A huge number of people keep their stage fear a secret as they are embarrassed about it. Many pass up opportunities and promotions if it involves public speaking. However, avoidance is never the answer – while it may bail us out temporarily, in the long run it only serves to strengthen the fear.

Studies suggest that at the core of the fear of public speaking is the need for acceptance. This age-old need perpetuates into many things we do. While speaking in public, people are anxious about whether the audience will respond positively and approve of them. In most cases, the audiences are non-critical and receptive but the remote possibility of the audience rejecting them instils fear in people’s minds.

However, there are many ways to overcome stage fear. All it takes is determination and perseverance.

Leaders and Public Speaking

• The term leadership is considered synonymous with eloquence. When leaders are able to effectively communicate their vision, they build trust and motivate and inspire their employees.
• But does this mean all leaders are naturally good public speakers? No, it does not.
• In fact, many popular leaders/famous personalities had terrible stage fear - Steve Jobs, Mahatma Gandhi and Warren Buffet to name just a few.
• This is indeed surprising, given all are regarded as prolific stage speakers. So, how did they manage to overcome their intense fear of public speaking and transform into inspirational speakers?
• Well, all had a vision they wanted to communicate and they were so passionate about it that they worked hard in various ways to overcome their fear.
• These real-life examples prove that it is indeed possible to not just defeat the fear of public speaking but also to excel at it.

Breaking Free from Stage Fear

Preparation, practice, and if needed, seeking support and help from others, can go a long way towards conquering stage fear. Given below are a few tips which will help.

• As already mentioned, practice, practice and then practice some more. There is just no alternative to it. Perform in front of a friend and ask for feedback if you are comfortable, or you can record yourself to see where you can improve.
• Try some calming techniques like deep breathing to help manage your nerves.
• Despite your best efforts to calm yourself, you can still feel nervous before the speech. It is perfectly fine. Even the most experienced speakers feel this.
• Visualize giving a great speech. Negative thoughts might creep in but push them away firmly and focus on staying positive.
• Research on your audience. Prepare the speech with them in mind – this can help you deliver your message in a way that is understandable to them.
• Watch your audience while delivering the speech. Evaluate their response and alter your speech accordingly.
• Be yourself – your genuineness will come through in your speech and the audience will be more open to what you have to convey.
• Try starting with an interesting anecdote or a personal story – it will get the audience’s attention and set the right tone for the remainder of the speech.
• Avoid reading out the entire speech as this prevents you from making eye contact with the audience and connecting with them.
• Finally, remember that nobody expects perfection. It is fine to make mistakes. When you are comfortable with yourself, the audience will relate to you better.

Dispelling the Myths

There are many myths regarding stage fear that only add to people’s already existing anxieties. Here, we dispel some of the widely-prevalent myths.

• Myth: Public speaking skills are inborne.
• Fact: Anyone can become good at public speaking with commitment and practice. Like any other skill, public speaking too can be learnt.
• Myth: Introverts make bad public speakers.
• Fact: To the contrary, introverts’ innate ability to judge their audience often works to their advantage while delivering speeches.
• Myth: Memorize the speech to deliver it better.
• Fact: Internalizing your message will aid in not only delivering the message in a natural way but will also help deliver the message without having to read it out.
• Myth: The audience is waiting to critique you.
• Fact: The majority of the audience is encouraging and looking forward to learning from you. They do not mind if you make mistakes and are not as critical as you imagine them to be.
• Myth: Good speakers do not get nervous.
• Fact: Everyone experiences some degree of nervousness before delivering a speech. Experienced speakers just manage it better.

Final Thoughts

Stage fear is nothing to feel embarrassed about. In accepting it, you move a step closer to overcoming it. Start small – read up on how some famous leaders overcame their stage fear. The decision to overcome the fear itself will help you feel stronger and you will start believing in yourself. And in facing the fear, you will become comfortable with your vulnerabilities and will become a more resilient individual.

Common Questions About Overcoming Stage Fear

1. What is stage fear?
Stage fear, also called glossophobia, is the anxiety or nervousness people feel when speaking in front of an audience.

2. Can anyone overcome stage fear?
Yes, with consistent practice, preparation, and the right techniques, anyone can reduce and even overcome stage fear.

3. Why do people get nervous during public speaking?
Most people fear judgement or rejection from the audience, even though audiences are usually supportive and receptive.

4. What are some quick tips to reduce stage fear?
Deep breathing, practicing your speech, visualizing success, and knowing your audience can help calm nerves.

5. Do introverts struggle more with public speaking?
Not necessarily. Introverts often read situations well and can deliver thoughtful, impactful speeches with preparation.

6. Is it normal to feel nervous even after practicing?
Yes, even experienced speakers feel nervous. The goal is to manage it, not eliminate it completely.